::Love Story::

Monday, February 28, 2011

She is here!!!

I'm so excited and happy when I received bro's sms last night that my item is here. I was still thinking if he is not able to help me buy, then I will probably have to get it in the spree, which is like $120 as quoted by this lady.

And voila..so happy bro managed to get it for me leh and it is only $80. OMG right? how much that lady earn by selling just 1 wristlet..tsk tsk.


Love it alot....but I cannot use it now, otherwise hb sure start to question me. hahaha.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Art&Craft

I was looking for items for rie's classmate goody bags then chanced upon this spree on sandart and inkart. I'm so glad I bought the inkart for R&R to do. It's really fun. You would sometime see little corners at shopping centres where the kids sit around a table and do those sand and inkart. Its the same.The finished product. Not very nicely done leh, first attempt. Maybe we didnt put enough ink. It's so difficult to get my idea across to rie. If she is the chairman, I think I will quit my job. See the pix below.
I told her the umbrella inside let's have it in light blue. She did one side light blue, then decided she wants the other side pink! And then I told her, it's not nice, coz umbrella first portion is pink, then your ribbon bow also pink. She insisted she wants pink. Okay fine.
Then after that, I asked her, how about the face? She said, hmmmm, PINK. No matter what I try to persuade her to use the other colours, she said no. Hello kitty is a girl, so I have to use pink.
So I gave up and let her do it. This isnt the first time I am facing such difficulties in trying to convince her.
Just yesterday, I received this little jumper that I bught for rie. It's so cute and I had wanted a raspberry fabric, but it was OOS. So I bought a pinkish brown one. And then, just as I expected, the fussy girl refuse to try it on for me! It's so frustrating that I have to keep threatening with THE CANE.

Her excuse? "I dont like it. It is brown, not pink!" So sadly I have to sell it off.
It was the same during CNY, when I bought for her a dark reddish cheongsum that she first eyed. And so glad there was in her size. Then scarly, she changed her mind when she saw this jiejie wearing a light pink one. So I said, okay, we buy this light pink. Then she changed her mind and said, she dont like it, coz the flowers are not pink, but white. She wants pink flowers, but dont have! And I got so angry, I just bought the first choice for her and she grumbled and cried all the way home that she dont like it and will not wear it.
It lasted till at least 3 days after I bought the cheongsum. Thankfully she wore it on first day of CNY without much fuss and to school too. Heng.
And then, next her, birthday cake. She wants a princess design cake, so fine, bengawan has just revamped their design and is very pretty. So they have this set of A to Z where each design is a different princess. So naturally, rie should take "R", but she wants a "H" because that princess Aurora is sitting down, whereas the one on "R" is standing up.
Her excuse? Princess must sit down. Then we tried days after days to tell her, your name starts with "R", not "H" and that people will ask, why did you choose "H"?
And so, yesterday, before the 48hours notice is up, we called up bengawan and changed from "H" to "R" after she decided to have "R" for her school party. And that's before telling us, she still wants "H" for celebration at nainai house. Okay, fine lor.
And then, even with clothings and shoes, she wants to make her own decision on what to wear etc etc. I guess for now, only I can decide how I want to tie up her hair. Girls right.
Maybe I should take back my words. Boys also the same. Tsk tsk. Reyes, when in a chairman mood, will decide what colour underwear he wants to wear, what tees he wants to wear. I still am not able to make him wear the other shoe that he needs to wear when he starts school. Cham. He's so in love with his crocs.
I allowed him 30mins of playtime at the playground one afternoon when the sun was hiding behind the cloud. Never seen him so happy since Dec, since we bared him from outdoor play.Love him to bits, and he knows I love him alot. Must cherish him, coz next time, he will be someone else's.

Monday, February 21, 2011

Love.....

I now then discover this app and is so cool. But then I dont know how to save the photos after taking it...


Saturday, February 19, 2011

Happy anniversary

Today marks our 5th wedding anniversary. No celebrations, just had a nice dinner. I too wish to have some private moments but hard to do so when we have no helper.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Happy Birthday rie...

We had an impromptu mini celebration for rie yesterday as it was her Chinese birthday.
She has been asking me day in, day out "when is my birthday coming? why so long"?

So when I told her today is your birthday, your chinese birthday, she was rather confused, but happy to know it's her birthday and hb bought her a hello kitty cake. Kids were too excited till I didnt take a photo of it. But it seems to look like the same design I bought for her last year...hmmm...

And reyes was really excited to sing the birthday song for his sister.
And the funny thing was when we asked rie to make a wish, she said :
"I wish reyes wont be a naughty boy."
"I wish reyes wont beat me."

Faintz.....

She doesnt know that her brother loves her as much as she loves him, coz I saw him kissing rie good night when she was sleeping and even put her pillow on her tummy for her. Oh well...

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Parents and grandparents woes

Just had a huge argument with my parents. Blew up this time. Big time. Of me being bias over reyes and riesia and having to leave cane marks of riesia. It's a con having to be so close to my own parents. That's when I wish we were only alone, far far away. Ended up making hb upset and mad, threw tantrums at me n kids and made me upset. Why can't parenthood be easier?

Wednesday, February 09, 2011

The reunion

Okay, been slagging...tired. Didnt even sleep a wink last night! Hb was coughing throughout and reyes and rie were having bad nightmare and I had severe backache. I hate my simmon bed, bluff people, say non flip, I flip already the springe still sink.

I only slept a peaceful 1 hr in the other room on my bro's harder bed, before reyes scream at 8am again.

So, the reunion with dee's parents. It's an impromptu. It's been always a wish to pay them a visit after 11 long years. Wondered how they were, how different the house is now, how big the brothers have grown up. I should say these should not be my business anymore, but it's like they hold a place in my heart.

It wasnt easy to seek approval from The man. So anyway, I got my way and brought rie there. Thank goodness she is well behaved despite missing her afternoon nap. The drive there brings back memories. Walking along the void deck, the lifts, the walkway to the flat, even the smell in the air is so familar. My heart was beating very very fast as I walked towards the flat. As if it's my first time visiting his parents. Exactly the same feeling.

So anyway, dee's dad opened the door and I think they might have been pre-empt earlier by dee's brother that I'm coming. But the mother was very surprised to see me and the moment I saw her, there was this strong feeling of me wanting to tear liao, but I held back, so scare paisay lah. Then wanted to hug her. Like returning to "niang jia" like that leh.

But that weakness overcame me and I teared when I told her I had wanted to visit them much much earlier but never had the courage. Boo hoo.....Dee's dad was very very nice. He comforted me and tell me not to think of the past anymore, live and think of what's going to happen next day and that should love our own family etc. Dee's mum said, she will also sometimes think of me too. It was tears of happiness and sadness in a way.

They longed to have grandchildren, since dee's the eldest son/grandson. And if things were different, they would have been the best babysitter should there be grandchildrens, then I wont have to worry about who to help me look after kids.

We didnt have much time to talk, coz they had to prepare dinner for all the other relatives to drop by later in the evening. When they all arrived, dee's mum started to re-introduce all the relatives and then the first aunt asked, who is this. There was a pause, then dee's mum paused and then said, she is Dee's last time girlfriend lah. And this went on as more relatives arrived and I was so paisay. I was also worried news might spread to dee and his petty wife. And dee's bro stood up for me and said there was nothing wrong, since I'm paying dee's parents a visit and not coming to haunt dee what. love him love him. How nice to have such BIL right? And somemore the 2 brothers all same generation one, so can click very well with me.

Rie loves the place. I think she loves all the goodies there more and didnt want to go home. If only. I left the place with a lighter heart, knowing I finally visit them after all these years. I wonder when will I have the courage to visit them again. Thought of making it an annual affair, but not sure if it will be well planned.

Monday, February 07, 2011

Which to choose

I'm in dilemma...I can only choose one, and one of it is the favourite that I liked!
The one in pink, it looks familar doesnt it? Thats because I bought the coach skinny in the same print in Dec. And now they have revamped the print for a neater look.
And I cant decide which I should get... The pink one has a slot infront, so that is a plus. But that comes with an extra US$10 lah. For the other pattern, it is just a normal wristlet, similar to the one that I have tongpang moonlight to help me get it the last time she went to US.

So pls pls help vote and tell me which is nice...
oppsy, while surfing, I chanced upon this universal case that has the same prints! And I'm thinking if I should get the case for my iphone...should?????I'm currently using the wristlet as my iphone bag and was thinking wristlet is much more feasible than just buying a universal case right?



I asked rie for her opinion and as expected, she always goes for pink.

Saturday, February 05, 2011

testing

Testing

The knot will never be untie

The knot in my heart will never be untie.

Today was meant to be a happy occasion. An emotional reunion after 11 long years with dee's parents.
I want to blog about it. Some say when I have time.

One say: you gain some, you lose some. How true.
I don't know how long I can carry on living in this family.
I'm tired mentally. Very tired and it's only the first 6 years.

Thursday, February 03, 2011

Reunion Dinner at Park Royal Hotel

This is our 2nd year of reunion dinner out of the house. Seems like this may just be a tradition liao as mum gets tired of cooking yearly for all of us and creating a mess at home.

Outside, we have tons and tons of food, desert and kopi. Create a mess also never mind, got people to clean up and then aircon provided somemore at such a comfy place. But I will miss the home cook food for reunion.

Mum will still cook tomorrow, first day of New Year and I'm gonna keep my tummy half empty to fill up with her delicious cooking. I think with kids, they certainly do bring joy to us adult at such gatherings. The family size is shrinking year by year unlike our Grandparents time when we have like 6 or even 10 uncles and aunties and with so many cousins as each auntie or uncle have 3 kids or even more.
But for now, time has changed. Many are happy with just 2 or even 1. It's even rare to have 3 or more kids, so I'm really envy of those who have the ability and capability to have more kids.
I'm hoping this year will be a better year for us all, wash away all the bad lucks and welcome more good fortune. Huat ah everyone!