I'm in a terrible, grumpy mood this morning. I didnt have sufficient sleep and am soooooo very grumpy. Last night, I cradled Rie, trying to make her go to bed since 1030pm and hubby just simply watched his telly and went to bed and snored within minutes. Fine. This is what he usual does every night. So I rocked, I sway and do whatever I can to make her sleep. She did nap awhile, but was woken up just as soon as I lay her on the bed. By then, I was just tooooo tired to do anything and doze off with her awake. Then I woke up when she slap my face and smelled something. Aiyah, she poo lor. And the time was already 1am! I got so irritated at the sight of hb having his sleep I woke him up and told him she poo.
I just cannot stand the sight of me being awake while he is sleeping there like a dead pig. Washed Rie up, changed her nappy and once again, tried to make her get to bed. She was only sound asleep at 120am and I just flopped on my pillow dead.
Her first whine came at 6am and it felt as if I had only slept for 10mins. Darn! Got to the bathroom at 630am only coz hb was taking his own sweet time! Then when I came out and he was already dressed he just dilly dally around the house doing NOTHING and that pissed me off. I shoot him back, he could have helped me assemble the bottles right??? Darn! Every morning I have to assemble the bottles, pour the milk, pack them up and when that's all done, I do my make up in 5 mins and out of the house, but this morning at 645am, he just asked, are you done and that was the last straw! Argh....I told myself not to lose my head and keep calm. I just sulk all the way.
Went down and halfway thru, hubby rushed up again to check if he has locked the gate. My hb has a very bad habit, that is he is very forgetful and he checks on things TOOOOO many times! Every night before we sleep, he would do his inspection. check the kitchen tap, toilet tap, washing machine switch off, check the lock on the main door, window and then he comes to bed. How he check the tap? He "swings" his hand underneath the tap MANY times and go counting 1, 2, 3,....till he is satisfied there is no water leaking. How he check the main door? He press the lock MANY times click click click even though it is very obviously clearly locked.
And when we are out of house and he locks the door, he pulls the door knob (yes), MANY times again. and the gate lock? Same, press many times again. I have reminded him MANY times not to do it, but still all fall on deaf ears. I told him, one day our main door screw would all fall out.
I sulk all the way to my mum's place and told him to leave the house first. I went out only later, just cant stand another sight of him. Everyone pissed me off on the way to work. From the stupid man who was holding his cigar and crossed my path, to the lady who kept banging into me on the mrt. Bad tuesday.
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For my spa treatment last night, it was good and scary for me. We arrived happily and I was looking forward to a treatment like I had in Bintan, relaxing, smoothing....My therapist came and she looked like auntie. She wasnt dressed like those in the kebaya like my friend's therapist. I was thinking if she's a trainee, or new in this job.
She did a very hastily scrub that lasted probably 15mins only and it was a very very rough scrub work done. And the room light was so bright, like those downlight and she kept rattling on and on and on that I had post pregnancy water retention blah blah. I was shown to the bath tub soon after with lots of bubble in pearlmilk. I felt I couldnt relax at all, and was interrupted twice by her as she kept coming in to check on me if I was comfortable etc. She gave me a chocolate to eat and I saw her fingers had bubbles on them...erm, I just turned away lor...
Then come the best part~The massage....Wah liao, the massage is fabulous and yet super duper painful for me! I found out later that she is a TCM therapist! No wonder she kept rattling on about TCM when she was doing the scrub for me and saying I have water retention, back problem etc. As she massaged me, she said she wants to get rid of the water retention for me, so she started from my calf to my thigh, wah liao, solid leh. I was biting my teeth and trying to ren....Then I asked if she can use a slightly lesser strength and she chided me, she used lesser strength and asked if I wanted like this for what? My friend's therapist is doing such massage, and is such a waste, throwing money and she went back to her full strength again. *pengz*
She then told me to take good care of my knees, she said she knows I'm havig probem with my knees already and said I'm still young and should take care. I kept quiet, I didnt tell her I was having slight tingling sensation on my knee caps nightly when I craddle Rie to sleep on my feet.
She then went on massaging my back and said my right side is slightly swollen than left, coz she noticed I carried my bag on my right more than left and told me I have to take care too. Then she noticed I have a blueblack mark on my right side upper chest which I noticed it during the weekend only. I didnt knock into any object and didnt know I had the blueblack mark till one day hubby asked me about it. She tried to massaged and asked me if it was painful and it wasnt at all. She then said, sometimes when we have blueblack out of sudden, is the handwork of ghosts. True, I agree, coz thats what happened to my friend in China the last time I was there. And then she said otherwise, it could be the bed goddess who is angry with me, so she target me. Rie is now sleeping on our bed and on my right is the baby cot. And the mark is on my right side! Freaky!
We then chat about how I pray to the bed goddess and she said when our child is smiling, laughing in their sleep, she is playing with them. And when she wants them to wake up to drink milk or she have to leave to attend to another child, she would smack their butt and make them cry so that we would be awake. Cute right? And then, we as parents have to pray to the bed goddess for taking care of our child. We only prayed twice, first and fourth month nia leh..and she said we have to pray to her with rice, meat and gold paper. We didnt leh, and probably that explains why Rie kept crying every night in her fourth month and only stopped when we carried her to our bed. Mmmm.....and then I gena lor.
Then hor, her palms are all red, black and itchy, she said all my wind got into her palm. I dont know how true is that lor. I was thinking probably she used too much strength, that's why. But she said she never felt so itchy before...mmmm...
Okay, long story short, after massage, it was the heavenly chocolate mask. I see brochures har, the ladies are often covered full of chocolate one. No hor, bluff pp, I was smear with chocolate little bit nia and then left in a hot wrap. After that, bath time and I was done.
I thought that would be the end, then scarly she looked at me after bath and said I didnt have enuff blood circulation. She had actually got my blood circulated during the massage, but coz I had lie for the wrap for too long, my face appear blank white again. So she did her thing again, massaging my arms, and crack crack them..aiyo.......
Then it was my friend's turn for her massage as she has pain in her neck. And then my turn again. She asked me to lie on my back and started to crack my back and really got cracking sound leh....it was pain, but after that, shiok and I feel so warm in my body....
I would have love to sign up a package with them, coz she seems very good to get rid of my wind and it does work. But I have to remember not to sign, otherwise hb sure scold me, so I told them I would prefer to pay as I visit them....and left the place feeling kilos lighter and smelling like chocolate.