I think you would understand how I feel if you had ever encounter a similar incident.
I'm someone who can be loyal to my hair dresser only if she listens to me.
During my secondary school days, mum and I frequent this salon at Serangoon Central whenever we needed to tame our hair. I followed the boss through my secondary school days, until my poly days. And despite shifting nearer to town few years later, I still went back to her for my hair cut.
And then, I decided to try out Chapter 2 with my gf during my uni days. And I met another nice hair dresser who made wonders to my hair and I followed her through for 4.5 yrs. I head to the salon probably just once a year or twice at most. Each time she would snip snip snip and layer more and more, despite me telling her, I would like to keep the back of my hair a length, coz I found it becoming to frizzy and flying all over since its very layered.
Of course she would say okay okay. Then in the end, still snip, coz she said it was very heavy at the back etc etc. So after the last round when I did rebonding with her, I never went back again, even though I really really envy her triple blade scissors cutting skill. The rebonding wasnt done to my satisfactory and due to some internal conflicts with her colleagues, I doubt she would be staying for long there too.
So I sourced for another salon, and went to the one at Hougang where my gf did her rebonding and it was very nicely done. And as much as I dread going all the way to Hougang, I had to. Coz the rebonding costs so much cheaper as compared to when I did my hair at C-2. And the result was smooth, sily, shiny and best of all, the hair dresser listens to what I want! And she also gave me the encouragement to try out the steps hairstyle that I did during reyes 1st bday, last Oct.
I went back to her again in March for my haircut and because it was just a mini trim, I'm getting very frustrated with my long hair now, having to tie up in a bun everyday at home and feel so eee whenever my hair is done up in a ponytail, sweeping my back. So perhaps I would be running back to her again sometime soon.
Reyes had his haircut done last Sunday at my mum's place downstairs some void deck salon that my mum frequents. And being a mother, I too wish I have a hair dresser who would listen to me on how I would like my kids hair to be cut right? But no lor. Reyes had his haircut last month and we specifically told her NOT to cut off his fringe, but she snip off in the end also despite saying okay, noted. Hb and I were sighing in the car.
So this time, I told her and reminded her that I just want the back and sides to be trimmed. Top I'm gonna keep it. Then she came, look here look there and as usual, gave suggestions to keep the front, but back high slope. And then it didnt turn out to be what I want in mind!
She actually shaved reyes hair short at the back instead of having a slope. So reyes now has short poky hair again. And when I saw her taking her scissors wanting to cut his fringe again, I quickly stopped her and had to tell her nicely thrice that we want to keep it. She tried to persuade us, say trim nicer etc etc, but I said no and hb joined in and then she relented. Phew.
So there goes, as much as I dislike bringing reyes to her for haircut, I'm still trying to persuade myself if those salon near my place are good at trimming kids hair or not. Not easy to coax and get reyes comfortable for haircut one leh.